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I’m getting married on Saturday. I’m not sure if it’s

I’m getting married on Saturday.
I’m not sure if it’s just stress , anxiety cold feet or what. But during my engagement to my fiancée I found out he had a sexual fetish that he was addicted too that I don’t want to participate in. He has recently try to push it which has almost ruined our sex life. On top of it 6 weeks before the wedding I found out he had a bad addiction to porn which he spends almost $300 a month to watch. I have no emotions on how I feel about this. When I confronted him it threw him into a bipolar rampage. 1st saying he does it for us. Then threated himself if I were to leave. Last night I officially told him since finding out I have no desire to have sex with you , all he said was ok. I tried to call him this morning he said he’s not having this conversation now.

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[1335]
Sep 29

Oh love, this is NOT how marriage should start out. Pornography addictions, sexual fetishes are serious issues that need to be addressed in a healthy way for healing and freedom to take place. I know this is not what you may want to hear, but I would strongly encourage you to postpone this wedding and seek out help. There are support groups out there, counselors, therapists that specialize in this area and could bring immense help! I would also consider getting counseling myself so that you can understand this addiction and gain insight and tools into how you help or hinder your loved one. Marriage is a unique bonding of two people wherein you share your bodies, minds and souls. You want to be united to someone that can devote themselves to you fully-sharing purity, real love and intimacy with just you- not bringing baggage and cheap imitations to your bed! Praying you find strength and courage to address this issue before committing to marriage.

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[35]
Nov 23

Don't do it. The betrayal will kill you. Trust me!

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Dec 2

Did you fall into the abyss?

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