Having trouble letting things go today. Yesterday my husband

Having trouble letting things go today. Yesterday my husband and I were both sick, but I felt much better and wanted to go to a super fun family gathering but I stayed home for him because he was feeling really crappy. Today he feels much better and I feel worse and he’s going out to lunch with his family!!! And he didn’t even offer to stay home for me. Should I be this angry?? I can’t seem to understand why I stayed home for him yesterday but he can’t stay home for me today. Unfair.

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Feb 8

@MarWin according to science, it's been confirmed. Men use half their brain, women use both sides of their brain. Me and my ex often argued.. and I know why.. I don't think deep enough, too simple minded.. I think like a guy. I don't look close though and identify the issue.. it's hard because to me it's not a problem..

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Mandydj76's picture
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Feb 12

Lol that's why I don't do that kind of stuff anymore. I go when I went even if it's selfish because of I don't get what I think I should in return I get bent out of shape

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TomTeerific's picture
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Feb 13

Cappiccinogrl1414.......I would feel hurt as well.....BUT....you made YOUR CHOICE and HE made HIS.....it will only hurt you to hold that grudge...along with all the other grudges you probably hold as well....I KNOW....I have lived my life thinking/hoping..... that if I do this...she'll do this......and most of the time....IT NEVER HAPPENED.....NEVER EVEN ENTERED HER F'N MIND......so...in the future...if YOU WANT TO DO SOMETHING...JUST DO IT......WITH NO REGRETS.....We want that love....Love from a significant other.....but YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST......

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