My mom and I got into an argument on who would take the dogs
My mom and I got into an argument on who would take the dogs out next and I said that she would after I took them out and she yelled "Don't get smart with me!" How was that a smart remark? Then she goes on saying I act like a kid. Maybe I do. I don't know. All I know is I do not want to be in the same room as her. She promises to help me when she did not fall through when she can't help herself. I'm done. I can't reach out my voice and feelings to anyone in this family. I feel like I'm not even wanted here.
I can relate to feeling "not wanted" somewhere. I felt that way with my mom. We had a horrible relationship till my father passed away. However, 23 years of feeling not wanted sucks. As for the dogs statement, it all depends on how you said it. When you are in that kind of situation, pay attention to what mood the other person is in. Sometimes when someone is upset, a comment can be taken out of context. Just some things to think about. Hang in there. You're not alone.