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November 19th, 2020


stressed and anxious. My ex-boyfriend has kidney cancer. He

stressed and anxious. My ex-boyfriend has kidney cancer. He lost a kidney and a half years ago and now his remaining kidney will probably be removed. Although he dumped me, i still feel this way. He is a ****, never wrong, critical, I'm the bad guy....always,he's a narc, a pain in th #$%^& but I would not wish this on him. I have every reason to but I don't want to. He had a biopsy. He texted me and said he got bad news from his dr. when I asked him what the bad news was he changed the subject. I asked him how he was doing and he said nothing. So, he has left me hanging in suspense. I think he might be upset and not want to talk about it. I don't know for sure. I don't know how I feel or what I should feel...if anything ...because he hurt me to my core.

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Jul 14, 2019

thank you..i needed that

Jul 14, 2019

Not just narcs use that communication style. It is a put off. As strawblue said, just being a listener is good enough.

Jul 16, 2019

I am taking both of your advice. I need to keep my sanity and continue with my progress. Very sound advice. Thank you for the reality check, I really needed it. Thanks to both of you


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