I kind of like a guy and I want to hang out with him more, b
I kind of like a guy and I want to hang out with him more, but he's not in any of my classes. I'm too scared to ask for a way to text him, so I was thinking about giving him a note to invite him to the library next Friday night. The thing is, I don't know if he really likes me. It seemed like it when I met him, he acted shy and nervous. I'm actually not sure if I want to be in a relationship again... I'm just looking for an opinion. Should I give him a note?
I think give him the note, or ask him directly. you likely wont know if he likes you unless you ask. but I worry, if you are not sure you want to be in a relationship again, and he really does like you, that he might end up hurt if you aren't sure what you want out of this. so be clear in your signals and your thinking. if you want to meet him and hang out, send the note
Meeting him and hanging out can be different from wanting to be in a relationship with someone. I would ask him directly and spend some time with him. See if he's someone you'd like to be in a relationship with or someone you'd rather have as a friend. Either way, you have gained a new friend.
Ask him if he wants to get a coke or something. It would not hurt to talk to him alone.