The "one that got away" recently started texting me again. H

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The "one that got away" recently started texting me again. He is back with his ex and was laid off since we last spoke. I don't know what to think or how to feel, but I'm thinking I should give up on him. If he really wanted to be with me than he would make an effort to make that happen and he's really not. My best friend told me that she thinks he only texts me when he's unhappy or not getting enough attention and that's how cheating starts. I don't want to be a side-piece.
The only problem is.. when he texts me, my breath escapes me for a moment and I can feel my whole body reacting. I honestly thought for a good chunk of time that this was the man that I wanted to marry. I don't have the willpower to ignore his texts. Do I block his number? Do I talk to him about it? I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend. He may not be perfect, but no one deserves that. I also don't want to be the other woman. Help guys - what do I do?

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Nov 14

God, I hope this doesn't happen to me. I am no longer in a relationship... We're both single. She broke everything off and I'm in pain. Reading your post made me think, what if she tries to come back? Thank you to those that replied to this post. Jayne.Bennet, don't give in to the one that got away. Mine got away...i don't know why. I think we share the heart pain. Let's both not get hurt again. I know I need to move on, you already have. The one that got away has too but wants security, which to him is you

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Ellora's picture
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Nov 14

just dont be upset over a person who didnt understand the purity of your heart ....i am sure you will find someone who will see it and love you no matter what...just dont lose hope..

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Jayne.Benette's picture
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Nov 15

I stopped responding and I think he got the message. I can't say that I'm not upset, but I cannot trust him. He bailed when he realized I wasn't his version of perfect. I don't need to be around when he comes to that realization again. Thank you all for your kind words. It means so much to me ^_^

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