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Over a week ago my boss was hinting that it’s my narcissis

Over a week ago my boss was hinting that it’s my narcissist ex’s birthday. My ex’s birthday came and went without me contacting her. Today when I was telling him I was in pain with my shoulder he mentioned how she had pain in her shoulder in the past. Later in the day I was talking to him about my shoulder again and he brings her up again, I then tell him that I was suppose todo yoga tomorrow an he brings up her being a yoga instructor. that’s three times in one day. Last time I spoke to her which is almost 10 weeks ago she said she wanted to come and work for the same company as me. I asked him if she still plans to work with us and he said he doesn’t know but it seems strange he mentioned her so much today. What do other people think? Is he lying about not knowing if she wants to come back?. Is he trying to get me to contact her?

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Oct 8

I agree with Littleturtle. It seems pretty obvious that your boss is going to remain in the middle of you and her. He is the perfect flying monkey for her. It's VERY odd that he mentioned her three times in one day. It's pretty obvious he's not going to stop. You can either choose to keep ignoring him, or possibly confront him next time. Also, with whatever looming possibility of her coming to work there, and your bosses willingness to play her game (whether or not he even realizes it), I'd start looking for another job. Your narc isn't there (yet) but she still has you surrounded.

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Oct 8

@Littleturtle1000 I’m sure he tells her stuff and they both probably talk about me anyway. He does act like he wants to be my friend but at the end of the day he is my boss and I know his loyalty lies with her. I have a month off around Christmas so I’m sure I’ll find something within the next few months.

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Oct 8

@CL061 until a few days before her birthday, it was the first time he mentioned her in weeks. So it did seem very forced that he mentioned her three time’s in one day, it was almost like she was putting him up to it. I think she is probably concerned about my response if she comes back to the same company so i think she is trying to get him to hint for me to contact her but I’m never going to be I promised myself I never would and I always keep my promises. I’m hoping to be gone early next year, I have four weeks off over Christmas so I can’t leave until I use them.

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