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Do narcissists block after caught in a lie? I caught him in

Yankeegirl71's picture
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Do narcissists block after caught in a lie? I caught him in a lie. Said he wasn’t seeing anyone and he got drunk, made a video and I saw this girl. He tried to play it off like what am I talking about. He then accused me of having an attitude. Said to leave him alone and blocked me. That’s his solution to EVERYTHING. I know my intuition was spot on-especially since I didn’t accuse him of doing anything with her all I said was that I can see why he doesn’t bring me to anything! He wouldn’t discuss anything he was just like “whatever” he knows he lied. I had a bad anxiety attack and was shaking. I wish I was wrong about him..I’m not. He knows he is guilty.

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Blueberries1234's picture
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Sep 11

@Yankeegirl71 lol exactly, you're probably not the abusive one... you're speaking up for yourself, which triggers him and he perceives it as "control" probably. Or he just wants you to learn to be silent. You cause him to feel guilty or probably shame... which isnt YOU it's obviously what he is doing. He isnt used to having rules that are defined. And I secretly think narcissists just have ptsd emotional reactions, when we "accuse" them of stuff they actually did... we trigger their shame and yea they are just remembering their past controlling parents, and running away. It isnt about them though. It's about you, you are rhe main character in your life. You need to figure out why you are choosing to stay with him.

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kelly72's picture
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Sep 11

No contact. He's using you.

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Yankeegirl71's picture
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Sep 11

@kelly72 it’s like a terrible addiction..I have tried no contact/no hanging out before and I gave in and asked him to hang even though there were situations where I felt disrespected, but I hung pot with him and slept in the same bed...what message is that sending? He says we fight too much..no I am not keeping my mouth shut if I’m feeling disrespected.

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