I am feeling abandoned... After loosing a toxic relationship

I am feeling abandoned... After loosing a toxic relationship, I am now anxious on whether I deserve true love and care.. Will anyone ever trust or love me is a question that is haunting me. I gave my best in the last relationship, but because of the situations and other external factors, things became toxic between us. Even after us trying to make things alright, it had to end like this... I'm worried whether I can ever be truly loved by anyone again... I am sad, anxious, and lonely.. I feel like I was abandoned because I'm not worth being loved...

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Jul 28

Where do you think this feeling of abandonment comes from? Lot of relationship trouble stems from issues in earlier childhood years. Through healing n self reflection I realize I have insecure attachment from childhood abuse myself. This was going to be disaster any relationship I got into because I did not love myself. I had no idea about weeding out the good people. I was insecure n allowed a lot of terrible people to mistreat me. Now I’m fine with just being by myself if I need to be. I changed my negative outlook through prayer, counseling, self help books, and learning about abuse. It is possible for you to find and truly be loved but you must believe it’s possible first. If you believe nobody will ever love you… most chances you’ll fight anyone who tries to love you. I hope you feel much better about things soon!

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Jul 28

@Foundlove Yes, I'm hopeful too. I think what has been helping me is tackling each day and focus on the present than on past or future. I have been feeling better lately..

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Jul 28

@andine yeah, I'm gonna take my time as well.

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