Happy 2020!!!
"The best is yet to come."
-Frank Sinatra

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MinionsandMe's picture
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Mar 6, 2017

That's all we can do!! **Lots of Love**

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kerst1's picture
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Jan 13

Like Hal (above) I frequently feel my best is not enough. And then, looking back (I do that so much), I realize my best was pathetic. The way I used to scream at my wife and our children, if anyone else were to speak to my family as I did, I would have pummeled that person,

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La_Paz's picture
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Jan 13

@kerst1 I obviously don't know you personally, but don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes your "best" is not the same as other people's "best". And that's ok. Some days, my "best" is to take it one minute at a time and survive... My perception from what you wrote is that you feel extremely guilty about how you treated your family at a certain point in time. I don't want to defend behaviours such as screaming at your wife and children... but do you really think that you were doing your "best" in that moment? I try to do my best as much as I can, but I'm not always. :( We all get triggered sometimes and nobody's prefect. But to come here and share is great!!! Sending you love and light

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