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So I'm going through a divorce.its very ugly. Theres a 2 yea

So I'm going through a divorce.its very ugly. Theres a 2 year old involved. I'll be honest was I the best husband. No. I never hit I didnt break things but I would yell. Not at my daughter but at my wife. I guess the way we started our relationship was a total lie. She and her family are very very successful. I'm a working class slob. Shes smart I'm not. Her and her family has lots of money I had just what I needed. Anyway. I built myself up with lies to compete with her and her family. Everything was competition. From working to cooking to simply just speaking. Anyway. I was very miserable in the relationship. It wasnt what I wanted to b.i turned into someone i hate very much. Not just because i yelled not because or had to put up a front. I couldnt be me. I had no identity unless her or her family have me one. The divorce was not started because I was a bad person it was because I down loaded a app. For my wife and I to use it was a sex dice app. Well along with the app came a lot of bad stuff I got a viruse on my phone and I got hammer with pictures pop ups of really bad stuff. So I would delete everything every time it came up. Couldnt buy a new phone cost to pay off my phone was way too much. Not to mention I could NEVER tell my wife. So anyway I've done a lot of self reflection these 3-4 months. And i think. I know i need to be able to talk to someone and get my head straight. I don't know if this is the place but I'm willing to try.

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[4805]
Oct 7

Just want to say welcome and you need to be yourself. Don't let anyone dictate how you are as a person and don't be afraid to be who you are. You are important and need to live a good straight life with no lies only truth. Don't ever feel down on yourself you deserve to be happy and just be you. Hugs and sorry u have lived a life that you couldn't be yourself.

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Oct 8

Thank you for the kind words. I guess I'm here because it's made me so bitter and angery. I need to get a handle on it. I have a hard time letting this go. I guess I'm waiting for justice and it makes me angery that why does a narc get away with everything?

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[4805]
Oct 8

@Karl1969 Your welcome i supported you so if you want to support me too you can private message me some time if u need. just click on my profile and hit support and send a request. thanks.

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