Newest BLOG IS OUT!!!!! "In Praise of being Lazy"
Make sure to click READ MORE to see the full article. -SG
https://www.supportgroups.com/blog/in-praise-of-being-lazy or click BLOG on GREEN menu bar

My go to place. Today landed up in a one sided phisical figh

My go to place. Today landed up in a one sided phisical fight, the guy was really upset not only was he swinging but the guy was also been verbally abusive. At no point did my anger kick in. It was the perfect environment to loose my **** but nothing. Can any one please give me the key to been normal?

Comment
 6
View 3 More Comments
TreborH's picture
[8270]
Nov 8

@norseduncan, I remember the days when I was like that. I think at the end of the day we both searching for that healthy place. Again, thank you for responding, not feeling as panicked as I was earlier. Think there is an abuse factor behind this that needs attention.

Reply
norseduncan's picture
[185195]
Nov 8

@TreborH that could very well be. and you should investigate that angle.

Reply
jim111's picture
[19545]
Nov 12

For me, I'm the most calm person around. I grew up around people that had massive instantaneous anger. My dad for one. He grew up spoiled and had tantrums. He continued having tantrums all his life.
I find anger immature. And DON'T take that poorly or towards yourself.
I was brought up to be very mature. I had to be, my dad and two step mothers were like children.
I do go in my so called cave at times. And I clam up. But then I'll talk about the problem later. I think things out well too.

I've often thought that people with anger issues should take up Marshal arts. You are taught not just how to protect yourself. But also, to never allow anger into the situation. Your taught to stay calm and THINK about your next move and your opponent. Anger releases Adrenaline. It escalates anger. You need to learn to defuse it. For me, that's where the maturity comes in.
Youth reacts, where as age thinks about the reactions.

Reply

Login or Register

You are visiting Support Groups as an anonymous user.

Please consider joining our community and gain access to additional features by

registering or logging into your account