Hi, I am here because I am overwhelmed with the situation I

Hi, I am here because I am overwhelmed with the situation I have going. My ex husband has allowed girlfriend to pose as me as the mother of our children and taken my kids to new doctors. These doctors think they are talking to the mother of the children and give recommendations and medication unbeknownst to me. My ex and the girlfriend have tried numerous other times to push me out of my kids lives. I have an attorney and a pending court case. But the things that are going on are beyond me that I do know how to handle myself and fear that my emotions will get the best of me. I am trying to protect the best interests of my children and I need help before I land myself in jail. The poker face and the IDGAF attitude is not working and I am about to lose it. Please someone help me. I am only trying to protect my children. This behavior towards me is abusive. I've tried to talk to my friends and they don't understand. No one understands unless they go through something like this. Please help me

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andine's picture
Oct 22

Sadly, our ex*s would rather pay thousands to their lawyers vs to their children. :( sorry that your friends are not supportive. Does not sound like you are overacting at all. Divorce can be truly awful , especially with children :(

andine's picture
Oct 25

@Dtorres1527 that is terrible that his has his gf do everything but unfortunately that might be out of your control. He could pay a nanny or a sitter but instead he receives *free* childcare from his *qualified* gf. As you know, Keep a written account of everything that happens in case you end up back in court. Very sorry.

Littleturtle1000's picture

@Dtorres1527 There's definitely something wrong with him and his gf. I agree with andine that you need professional mental health support as well as any other support. People that do things like that would drive anyone to the edge. Google breathing techniques for stress it will help you and you need all the help you can find. I'm sorry he's doing those things and putting your kids in situations they should not be in.


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