i don't even know where to start.. All i wan to do is leave.

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i don't even know where to start.. All i wan to do is leave. i have 2 kids and a step son. my husband and i have been together for almost 7 years and married for almost 6 we fight a lot and he gets verbally abusive with me, always putting me down and making me feel as if i am never going to be anything without him.. his family hates me we currently no longer talk to his family due to the fact that his mother gave my step son a cell phone and he used it for dating web sites and porn and hes only 13 we have talked about not letting him have a smart phone cause hes not responsible with the things he does have.. but that's the reason we don't talk to his family but it goes way back to the beginning of why they hate me.. my step son doesn't respect me and his father never sticks up for me i am tired of asking for change from my husband and step son i know i have my faults but enough is enough.. i fear tht my 2 little ones are being curupted by my step son hes alreadt trying to teach them to lie to me and id things from me.. my husband is never home he works all the time an d i understand that but when he does come home he sits down plays video games or watches tv.. i have a part time job in the evenings so i can be home during the day to take care of the kids cook and clean.. i don't mind cleaning and cooking what bothers me is the abuse.. sadly this isn't even the half of it.. i want out i am done but i have no idea where to start we moved out of town no friends no family i don't want to move back home but i wouldn't know where to go i have two kids to worry about and i don't even know where to start i feel so lost..

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[7135]
Sep 10

It sounds like a change would be good for you. You have to make a plan....not necessarily execute it yet, but look into the different options. Look at places to rent, consult a lawyer if needed, new job options etc. Then if you feel like you can make the move then do it. It's easier if you have stuff in place than to walk out and start from square one. Even if you have to move back home temporarily, you can get your feet back underneath you and get a fresh start.

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[3445]
Sep 10

@adobe17 , I agree with you. Irish needs to set a plan for the future. Don't get caught with your pants down.

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[20]
Sep 12

Thanks y'all.. sorry I haven't written back I am moving back home starting fresh so to speak.. I have a job lined up and I start thearpy when I make the move I am waiting until next month just so I can get my stuff packed and make sure my kids are all set for school..

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