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I don’t know why I get sh** from other blokes all the time

Zach94's picture
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I don’t know why I get sh** from other blokes all the time yea I have a scar but always trying to put me down in public laughing to their friends/girlfriend about you when I’m clearly not amusing or behaving funny then when I get pissed off and walk past them they get all freaked out and put their heads down, life’s really hard enough without this bulls*** all the time gets you down.

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Oct 11

@Zach94

Hey no problem. We all have scars, even those we perceive to be perfect people who judge us and give us a hard time. I am glad you are here talking about it. I am here to support you. If you need to talk feel free to contact me.

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Round3's picture
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Oct 11

Here's a woman's perspective. When I'm walking down the street and encounter a big muscular guy, wearing a tank top to show off his muscles, all tatted up, ---- well, that's super intimidating and I'll immediately be more aware of my surroundings. It's not conscious; it's survival because I'm a woman. We learn very young the world is dangerous and before puberty we learn various tricks to protect ourselves from men. I know you are NOT a bad guy. I know you will NOT hurt me. But based on appearance alone, I would likely subconsciously be a little more guarded. Ok, switching gears here, when men encounter a man who appears as I described, many feel threatened for different reasons. Their ego is threatened. They wish they had muscles like yours. So, they posture and act big to impress their friends, their girlfriends, and to boost their own stupid ego. Now, the finale, ---- BOTH of these reactions have NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with the other person. The woman is reacting because of society teachings and self preservation. It's her fears. The boys are reacting (yes boys, not men because real men behave better) are asswipes that need to grow up. At the risk of sounding like a creepy-stalking-lady ---- you are smokin' hot and if I were younger …. lmao (omg, please please read this in the way it's intended and don't be creeped out).

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Zach94's picture
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Oct 12

@Round3 thanks I appreciate it

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