Looking for some support. I have been discarded by a maligna

Looking for some support. I have been discarded by a malignant narcissist after 5 years of giving everything I had to offer, at the expense of my self-esteem, self-respect, sanity. I am just now discovering his abusive patterns that literally have destroyed my confidence. If there is anyone that can recommend a good book for abuse survivors I would greatly appreciate it.

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Sep 16

Rainier Howard look her up on Facebook it's called addicted to pain

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Sep 16

You have no choice but leave this relationship. A narcissist is an emotional vampire. He goal is to destroy you. He can't be saved. Spare yourself and get out now .

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Sep 17

Thank you. I am in the beginning process of unraveling years of psychological abuse, of doing everything I could think of to save the relationship only yo realize that the entire time he never had any intention of making it work. The love I yearned for kept me in a downward spiral as I grappled with the threat of losing him. I was never at ease which made me feel like I was going crazy and even started to question my own sanity, he was a professional gas lighter. I didn't know these type of people existed and I never thought it was as bad as it really was. To be discarded, and then drawn back because they haven't found their next supply is torture. I dread to see him with someone else. I have to admit that I acted out of co-dependency, that I have my own insecurities that rear their ugly head as this nightmare unfolds. I know this takes time, patience, tenacity and resolve, more than I have to give as I am so weakened by my current state. I would love to hear more about the successes of moving forward, the personal growth that occurs when we accept the reality of how illusory his love was for me. The violent rage and the need for admiration on his part kept me on my toes, unable to move half the time. I can only hope I see the light soon.

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