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I miss so much love and emotional support. My narc parents d

I miss so much love and emotional support. My narc parents did not give me. In other words, I used to get emotional and psychological support from my mother. But I realised that she does not genuinely care about me and all the most sensitive deepest feeling never surface. I do not have such a close friend to whom I can open up with deep feelings. Actually I do, but she is now dating some narc or something else, so she kind of adopted his ways or I don't know what. She is simply off. Maybe this is all a part of healing from narc parents. I was unaware that my mother is also a narc. So they gave me zero love. When I stay, they feed on me, when I leave I miss all the love that a person needs to feel happy. So I stay, leave, stay leave :D I will not extract what I want from them, neither will the solitude provide me unconditional love.

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Pedroso's picture
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Jan 10

I am in the distancing phase.. I can not bear his presence and he can not bear that I deserve to be happy..

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jim111's picture
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Jan 10

I understand that one. If you can, don't cut them out of your life as I did. But distance yourself enough to be happy. A phone call here and there will have to be good enough for them.

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Pedroso's picture
[730]
Jan 10

You are a kind person..

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