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I’m really kind of sad today thinking of putting dating on

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I’m really kind of sad today thinking of putting dating on back burner. I never even met up with this one guy in person. I felt at first he could be good guy then I started getting red flags he’s not. He mentioned severe physical abuse in childhood by parents, not talking to family anymore, displaying hot/cold type behavior like ignoring me for 2 days then calling, flirting saying he wants to be in relationship only not date and we should get married... back to ignore me again. I think he got arrested in 2015... I google searched him and saw something like that... he was involved with someone in past with substance abuse. For all these signs bad, I feel the strong closeness towards him. I’m thinking... I’m falling for another bad guy. I deleted his number and all forms of contacting him from email. Now I’m finding myself trying to find his number again and search for him. I think what is wrong with me? I think he was telling me all I wanted to hear but I thought how did he know what I want to hear? I’m getting the jelly/Hyde vibe again. It freaked me out. I told him how abusive past biggest predictor of future violence, bunch of stuff on attachment styles, and idk maybe other stuff. He completely ignored me then days later... hey you look beautiful (meaning a new pic I put up). This is confusing me why I feel so connected to him yet I never met him. I’m thinking am I good like ready to date as I’ve noticed all signs and kept away, or am I struggling and probably gonna fall for it again? I think I get uninterested still when guys treat me well. This is making me feel horrible.... like I’ll always just have this unhealthy outlook on relationships.

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Foundlove's picture
[23145]
Jul 17

For all this who have experienced grief from online dating I dedicate this song to you:

Player, player, player, dirtbag player dirtbag dirtbag dirtbag, narc!??? Rapissssstttttt lol

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PatMill's picture
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Jul 17

@Foundlove Sorry to break it to you, but I don't think that's a real song. I couldn't find it on Spotify. Very strange. Is it hip hop or classical?

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Foundlove's picture
[23145]
Jul 17

@PatMill it’s... electronic... hehe (aliens!)

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