I don’t understand what I did to deserve to be treated lik

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I don’t understand what I did to deserve to be treated like I’m literally nothing. I’m so tired of it. I’m tired of being accused of cheating just because someone I’ve known for a long time messaged me and it was a guy. So it automatically means I’m cheating. I’m tired of being pushed around and called name’s. I’m tired of you putting your hands on me. You where once the person I felt the most safe with and now I hate you. You wonder why I don’t want to be around you. You are a ticking time bomb and I’m your personal punching bag.

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andine's picture
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Sep 14

@SAdgiRl20014 Your local domestic violence agency will give you free therapy, it will be anonymous ,24 /7. Only call when you are alone and it is safe to do so. If and when you decide to leave or have him removed, domestic violence agency will help you every step of the way. Many , many of us have been in your shoes , more times than we care to remember. :( Violence , abuse , cruelty is bad for you and it is bad for your children. Very sorry you were suffering with the situation.

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andine's picture
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Sep 14

@Foundlove Is right. @sadgirl20014 abuse generally only worsens. if /when you decide to talk to domestic violence agencies , do not tell your partner , he may escalate his behavior. Separate your finances and keep yourself safe. Notify supportive friends and family of what is going on , in case they are in a position to help you.

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andine's picture
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Sep 14

@SAdgiRl20014 You have probably heard the analogy: if you put a frog in hot water , they jump out , but if you put a frog in cold water and slowly turn up the heat , they will eventually boil. Many of us have grown up with abuse and empathize that it is all we know . As children we did not realize it was wrong and that we had a choice to say *no*, *stop* and walk away. But of course children do not have that choice, so now as adults we have to retrain ourselves to be assertive and have healthy boundaries and protect ourselves and our children.

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