Could i be codependent? I seem to gravitate to men who "nee
Could i be codependent? I seem to gravitate to men who "need" me. They use me until i feel to rejected and empty and i finally leave. I cannot think of a single ex that wasn't a complete *** to me and i put up with it. Years later i am still haunted by these ex's, they message me saying they should have married me , i was the best yada yada sorry i was a **** to you and so on.. (not to sound conceded). One guy i dated, it wasn't serious, but i wanted it to be. He told me flat out, he didn't want a to because i would just agree to everything he wanted to do, he even said "like if i said, lets smoke some crack, you would be like SURE!" What is wrong with me.. :c
This could be an issue you could bring up in therapy, Do you have the same gravitation towards women (as friends)? Best!
@kisobel I dont really have any friends at the moment. I feel like im too unstable and flaky on plans to keep friends. i spend time with my mans family and the dogs sometimes
@Emilydanger Well, that sounds good. Dogs are great, they don't mind flaky plans. My dog is a good friend. Hugs!