all my "friends" are fake

all my "friends" are fake

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Scat's picture
(341885)
Jan 23

@eternal69eclipse.. you said, "its also instinctual... a lot of our behaviors are driven automatically, even as highly intelligent beings. that's what leads us astray when others dont accept us."

Yeah, I feel ya. I agree that there can be times I don't even know I'm doing or saying things that bug other people. And a couple times recently I'd catch myself doing it and go, "wow, what am I doing?" when I'd say something super insensitive and not realize how stupid it was til I said it.

People self sabotage as well.

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Rdan's picture
(13610)
Jan 23

@Scat if you think about it it makes perfect sense .
especially if you are an introvert. An introvert generates energy from within and when around others can be draining leaving you empty. Also men are direct. There's no mystery there. The only shame is that men as a whole have broken their promises to their wives and children. Men are to be initiators. We are to lead. We are under orders. We are to be self disciplined and to teach this to our sons and model a real man to our daughters. Instead of self disciplined leaders for examples and teachers we have boys being molested in the Catholic Church, girls being molested in the Mormon church, incest and fatherlessness' is epidemic. Even in the church. So if I am looking for support, examples and strength in purity it will likely be from women because I just find it hard to tell which man is actually telling the truth and not saying one thing and doing something else. I didn't mean to say all that. I appreciate you including me in your discussions.

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Scat's picture
(341885)
Jan 23

@Rdan That's a lot to digest. I can tell you're a deep thinker like I am. And here I thought you took a Benadryl. You're fairly clear for someone who just took a sleepy allergy pill. I'm about to do the same or I'll never sleep tonight. Thanks for the talk brother. Catch up with you later.

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