My name is Jessy E. Griffin, I am an aspiring writer and semi-self employed author. I make very little money off of it, but it pays in self-respect and courage and creativity. I am bisexual and damn proud of it. If you have some kind of problem with that or if you wish to preach at me, please take a number and get your ass in line haha. I'm already a follower of Christ and do believe Jesus died on the cross for me. I am good enough for Jesus, so that automatically makes me good enough to get to know and possibly befriend. I don't tend to preach much, but I do suggest once in a while (when the situation calls for it). I mention casually about God once in a while. I do not care what religion you are! If you're a nice person, I might become friends with you. It's common sense - be kind.
As given above, I am a writer. I have an Allpoetry account where I post my original lyrics and maybe sometimes a poem or two. Just lyrics for now, though. I don't draw much, but I'm told I draw cartoonish things pretty well. I'm trying to get into more types of music - I grew up sheltered from a lot so I'm not too keen on the most popular singers/bands of the current fad. I'm a dork sometimes haha I like to try and make people laugh and just talk casually. I do a little mild gaming, mostly nintendo stuff. Pokemon, Mario, Kirby, and GaiaOnline are some things I like to do in my freetime that involve games.
My fiance Paul and I have been together since January 17th of 2010... he proposed to me February 14th, 2012. I'm very happy with him. We have our ups and downs like any couple does. Our flaws are mostly misunderstanding and jumping to conclusions and not hearin the other out. Very basic problems that we are working hard to overcome so we can be happier for a longer time. He's the sweetest guy I could ever know, and even though he may seem like a jerk to other people, it's only because they are refusing and/or are scared to get to know him on a better level. We are a very adorable couple, and he loves me for me. All I could ever ask to come of us would probably be happiness and trust every single day. I love him, very much!
I have a very small selection of best friends, but my two top besties who have been there for me through all the super-dramatic and depressing times and never once asked for anything in return... I couldn't live without them. Steven Delich - my best friend from middle school, and Becky Catey - who took me in when I was exploring my potential new life in Lansing when I lived there for 10 months to be with Paul for a while, and Donny Meir - A friend of my former immediate family (my father passed away), and even when everyone ONLY wanted my dad's belongings, Donny came through and stayed in my life for the friendship we'll always have. Even though we don't get to talk too often, we're still very close and he's very protective of me. I love them very much and I wouldn't give them up for all the gold or diamonds or money in the world. Not even if I was offered 100% Free publishing and guarenteed sales for a year!
I don't really have much of a life out in the middle of nowhere. There's hardly anything to do, which makes weight loss a bit difficult. I want very badly to lose weight to get rid of my type 2 diabetes. Because I can't lose weight quickly, I feel ugly and sad a lot. But the most I can do is Tae-Bo when I feel the motivation and count calories and watch what I eat. I try my very hardest not to let looks get to me... but I am very sensitive. A lot of people actually make fun of me just because I am overweight... but as said earlier... if I'm good enough for God, I'm more than good enough for them. My biggest curiosity in life is: "Why would they make fun of me and hate me so badly if I've never done anything wrong or did anything to hurt them?" Well, the answer is... because I live by common sense. If it's stupid, don't do it. If it'll hurt someone, don't do it. If something is right in front of you that is out of place, just put it away - you're RIGHT there.
Common sense is something I would like to see brought back to the human race for the better of all people. I believe in equality. I believe in God. I believe in fate. I believe in sin. I believe in medicine. I believe in pro-choice (nothing I do/say will influence someone NOT to do something. Common Sense!). and I believe in you. All of you. Someone has to and if you won't... then I sure as hell will. Get to know me. Ask me questions. I hide nothing (within reason). I'm Jessy Griffin... one of the best damn people you'll ever meet in your entire history of living... for the small things. The small, important, neet-to-know things. Spend more time laughing instead of worrying. If you worry too much... bad things will happen. Don't let them happen... YOU need to happen. Thanks for reading my About Me, and I hope you know me a bit by reading it! PM me if you like. Just ask me for my MSN - that's what I use the most.