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I had breast cancer over the past two years, and received no concern or support by my husband. Come to find out he was too busy having an affair. He was going to file for divorce in January and even made deposit to lawyer before me. But my lawyer processed papers first so to freeze his assets. Come to find out he'd been planning to leave me for two years, so most assets hidden, income reduced in half to not pay me alimoney. I've been on social security disability for two years. I added adultry to divorce grounds and got punched in jaw when he received notice of adultry. This was back in March and he is yet to go on trial. Supposedly will be on 9/6. I've suffered depression for two years and he is embellishing and telling lies to take sole custody of our son. Everything he is doing is out of spite because I contested divorce, exposed his affair, wont drop domestic violance charges, and to win our marital home by taking sole custody of our son. He is acting inhumane. He has brainwashed my son into hating me with all his lies. He is a good buddy and friend to our son but is a terrible parent. My son age 15 has no respect, has anger management issue, no empathy for people, only cares about himself and plays his dad all the time. My husband has done severe emotional damage to our son and refuses to see it. I was alway made out to be the bad guy because I wanted structure and boundaries for our son. Husband never enforced boundaries or rules. Example: So spoiled he can break expense computer and electronic games and watch porn, cuss, hit me, call me bitch etc. if I try to enforce something as smple as asking him not to swear at me. Husband still washes sons hair and let him sleep with us until age 13. My husband could care less how our son acts. Tells me I don't love him in front of our son because I try to teach my son right from wrong. I've had our son since March due to protection order. However my husband has been trying since that time to take him from me on trumped up allegations regarding my depression. We will probably be back in Court around end of year to determine who gets award temporary custody until a final hearing for custody can be made. I'm here for emotional support not for relationship.

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