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April

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Transferred from CA. to MS. (culture shock). have had to do alot of soul searching the past 5yrs., I've been in an empty marriage for 20yrs. my husband has multiple disorders which I learned about 5yrs. ago, W/alcohol dependency,hes a cross dresser & peeping tom (felony, which I never knew about....go figure... I did my best to be supportive & go to therapy w/him & learn as much as I could about "how to Help/guide", read alot of books & used the internet to guide me on what I was dealing with, learned alot about myself along the way & I finally figured out there is nothing I can do anylonger to be supportive of him as he continued the same pattern of behavior/cycles & that it IS he who has to help himself yet he refuses to do so, I feel uplifted talking here (like alot of you out there)& taking steps to help myself to stay strong & find my way to a happier lifestyle as I'd rather be healthy alone then sick emotionally w/anyone. Joined 10/2009

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    Real people
    A CHEATING MAN/WOMAN keeps a password on his/her cellphone while a TRUTHFUL MAN/WOMAN is confident enough to say "baby can u answer that for me!!" A C...
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    More to think about
    http://news.yahoo.com/remake-america--how-a-family-faces-foreclosure.html...
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    Take 5 mins. to watch
    http://news.yahoo.com/remake-america--laid-off-dad-takes-on-daunting-challenge-to-help-his-little-falls-family-out-of-rut.html...
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    "Unfaithful" airs tonight
    New series begins, Feb 4, 2012 on OWN channel @ 9/8c time, the series continues its in-depth look at infidelity, along with therapists suggestions/...
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    Nag no more
    http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/46280960#46280960...
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    Unfaithful
    New series begins, Feb 4, 2012 on OWN channel @ 9/8c time, the series continues its in-depth look at infidelity, along with therapists suggestions/adv...
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    Something to think about.......
    http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/46100453#46100453...
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    OWN - Oprah Winfrey station
    Has a new infidelity series every Tuesday evening 10pm/9c. For those of you seeking advice/answers, hope this helps. April...
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    I hope this helps as I'm considering it.
    http://www.healthreportsdaily.com/2/?t202id=631?amp%3Bt202kw=455502-1202116 Comments welcome...
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    When helping someone keep in mind:
    Help is something that means a person is continuing to improve/making progress & better equipped to handle themselves by being more prepared for life ...
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    Denial
    Denial is bliss.........and a bigger river....
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    My unconditional friends
    Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you. I loved you so...'twas Heaven here with you....
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    Skin Cancer
    For everyone out there that loves to tan in any form without sunscreens, sun worship, tanning booths, please don't do this to yourself/skin. I've been...
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    Thought this was interesting
    Lying and Infidelity in Romantic Relationships - Truth About DeceptionInformation and advice on lying, cheating and infidelity. www.truthaboutdecepti...
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    Keep hanging in everyone.
    Unemployment - Consequences Of Unemployment, Problems With The ...Unemployment is widely regarded as a major social and economic global problem. When ...
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