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THE RECOVERY PROCESS: Panic

PANIC:

Few situations - no matter how greatly they appear to demand it - can be bettered by us going beserk.
~Codependent No More

Don't Panic!
If a swimmer was crossing a great lake, then suddenly focused too heavily on the distance remaining, he might start to flounder and go under - not because he couldn't swim, but because he became overwhelmed by panic.
Panic, not the task, is the enemy.
Many of us have moments when we feel crowded and overwhelmed. We have times when we feel like we cannot possibly accomplish all that needs to be done.
We may be facing a task at work, an improvement in ourselves, or change in our family life.
For a moment, it is helpful to look forward and envision the project. It is normal, when we look ahead at what needs to be done, to have moments of panic. Feel the fear, then let it go. Take our eyes off the future and the enormity of the task. If we have envisioned the goal, it will be ours. We do not have to do everything today, or at once.
Focus on today. Focus on the belief that all is well. All we need to do to reach our goal is to focus on what presents itself naturally, and in an orderly way, to us today. We shall be empowered to accomplish, peacefully, what we need to get where we want to be tomorrow.
Panic will stop this process. Trust and guided action will further it. Breathe deeply. Get peaceful. Trust. Act as guided, today.
We can get back on track by treading water until we regain our composure. Once we feel peaceful, we can begin swimming again, with confidence. Keep the focus simple, on one stroke, one movement at a time. If we can make one movement, we have progressed. If we get tired, we can float - but only if we are relaxed. Before we know it, we shall reach the shore.

--Quoted from Melody Beattie

By janurse on Wed, 06-15-11, 04:31

Deleted SPAM.....do people truly not have a life?? Grrr....

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By Oh_la_la on Thu, 07-21-11, 12:37

Jan, this couldn't have come at a better time for me as I seem to be panicking quite a lot at the moment...it's only by reading things like this (and doing relaxation and yoga!!!) that I can distance myself from the situation and say....it's ok...just keep going...so long as i know that I'm going in the right direction, I dont need to worry. Thank you again, really helped. :)

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By jteach on Thu, 07-21-11, 19:04

LOL!!! You know that I stay in a panic. I will keep trying and remember the above. I leave in the morning. Relax, breathe and pray. Thanks Jan.

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