child pornography.

My fiance is addicted to child pornography, and i'm trying to figure out how we can get past this and have a normal life again. i know he needs couseling and so do i. i'm just hoping there is someone out there going through, or has gone through something similar, and could offer some advice or something. i dunno what i'm looking for

Comment
 13
View 10 More Comments
aprilJB's picture
[1030]
Sep 10

I know you love him, but as stated by a previous person your children always come first. My husband is a sex addict and we have a 7 year old daughter together, I can tell you sex addict or not I would leave him and the only time he would see his daughter is with supervised visits at the courthouse. It is your obligation as the mother of your child to protect them. Most of the children around the world wouldn't be molested if their parents took that extra step to protect them. I wouldn't want to take the risk of child protective services knocking on my door and taking my child away because I am living with a convicted pedophile (if he gets caught), and he will get caught most of those websites are set up by police officers to catch people like your husband. Even if he went into recovery and got help do you honestly believe you could ever trust him alone around your child again? Why live like that, why lie to family and friends when they ask you out and they say have "bob" watch her and you lie about why he cant. You will live in fear that he is sneaking in her room at night. She wont be able to have friends over from school for sleepovers in fear he is masturbating to them in the bathroom and also because that just isn't fair to the parents of those children. You need to stop thinking about helping your husband, I did that for years and it got me nowhere. I realized he has to want to help himself if he is going to recover and finally he is. You need to think about you and your daughter, you need to think long term and how your decision could possibly effect her future.

show more ⇓
Reply
[10]
Sep 18

i would have to say that i like to look at children in diapers ..dose that mean i am a sexual predator..? i never look at children with out them ..please help

Reply
aprilJB's picture
[1030]
Sep 19

weinvt, I would say only if you are aroused when you look at the children in diapers. If you are a pedophile that is something that can never be cured even with therapy. Can I stop being attracted to men, NO I cannot. There is a drug you can take, that helps you not get "excited". I would go see a therapist and get evaluated and then you will know for sure if you are, then talk to them about this drug. I do believe anyone who gets aroused by children is a pedophile. If you get aroused by a child between the age of 12-17 you are considered a hebophile.

Reply

Latest Posts

Login or Register

You are visiting Support Groups as an anonymous user.

Please consider joining our community and gain access to additional features by

registering or logging into your account