Are there any group discussions?
Where are all the people?I know I'm not the only one struggling to make a marriage work with a sex addict ...it's been an awakening the past 27 days.....really wouldve like a chat room with other people going threw the same emotions & demons.......sex is good as long it's not vanilla....is deviant sexual behavior really bad if it's with your spouse(&someone else)if your both ok with it?anybody out there?
I'm sure there are other people on here who are struggling through a similar situation. It is the holidays, so fewer people are online as they are traveling and spending time with their families.
As for your question, as long as you and your spouse enjoy it and it isn't causing any problems in your relationship, it shouldn't be considered a bad thing. If other people are telling you that it's bad, maybe you should avoid talking to them about it.
Good luck finding other people on here who can help you more than I can!
Thank you Leanne ....at least I see your point...
I think if it's consensual it's not bad...if it's with someone u know and trust and / or love it's not bad, life is a series of moments anyways...