I have been going out with a man for 6 months who is very close to 2 women and 1 man. I feel like I am being pushed in the background when they are around. When I am planning something he always includes them but when they plan something I am never included. I spoke to him about this and I think he thinks I'm jealous of his relationship with his friends. We are both in our 60's and I never had this with my husband who passed away 6 years ago. My husband always made me feel like the most important person in his life. He and his friends are all going through a divorce or getting a divorce and I feel left out of their little click. I don't know whether I should continue dating this man. I enjoy his company when we are on the dance floor or making love but he does not take me out as often as I would like to go out just the 2 of us. I am not sure if I am over reacting to the situation of his friends always coming first. Please let me know how to handle this? I feel very tense about this situation.
i don't think you should date him, he sounds mean and selfish. you had a good husband so you know what to look for. don't settle for less, you deserve better.
your tension is telling you that this is not a good man for you, trust it.