My Husband Is Bisexual.... I' a Little Confused.
I have known my husband a very long time and we have been very good friends for just as long. I have always suspected that he is bisexual. Recently my suspicions have been confirmed. We really love each other and I'm sure this will work, but now I have even more questions regarding how to do that, and keep us both happy, when I, as well, am very bicurious. I could use a few brains to pick. I don't want to screw this up!
One thing I have noticed about swingers is that there is always one of the couple who wants to bring another person into the picture while the other goes along with it for reasons other than that they found it a huge turn on as well.Then it soon becomes a divorce.I feel that what ever a couple do together as a unit of one,as long as it doesn't involve sources outside of the relationship is between them and private.But I have never seen a healthy, growing and happy relationship where a couple involve another person into their sex life.And this is not even talking about the health risks now days,this isn't the seventies when you could cure everything that was out there with a shot.I would ask myself,What's in it for me?Just because someone is a bi sexual does not mean that they just have to hook up and "Express that side of themselves",or explode.There are other issues in the relationship at work here I feel,like trust,honesty and respect for you as a person as well as his self as a being with self worth and esteem. Just my twodogs worth,good luck and fortune to all...
You said he was your best friend. If you can openly and honestly discuss it and share the experiences together he will still be your best friend. If its just sexual exploration and not full blown relationships why would he leave. You offer everything and then some. Start small and work your way into more finding both your comfort levels as you go. If you look at it as just different kinds of 'toys' to enhance your own sex lives it can be great. Good luck.
And that, my friends,is why I am having an increasingly difficult time reading these posts.