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Advice Please!

My husband and I have a daughter; she his not ours, but I love her like my own, I do understand that when it comes to the little one that it lays in mommy and daddys hands not mine. I'm ok with that, what I'm not ok with is I'm not allowed to ask or tell her how to treat or talk to my husband, who she treats like crap. I'm now told to turn the other cheek when my name is being slamed and called "little girl friend" and blames me for when we can't see the little one. cause I said something to her when she said we had no class. I will toot my own horn I do define Class. I don't know what to do should I keep my thoughts in my head and turn the other cheek for baby girl and her daddy. or keep standing up for myself.

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By is it me on Thu, 02-11-10, 14:57

The girl's father, who I gather is your husband, should be standing up FOR you. He should not allow his daughter to talk disrespectfully to you or him. Kids will push and push to see what you will let them get away with. I would not argue with the girl, rather just calmly tell her you will not speak to her, unless she can be civil and respectful to you and then do it. You may be the only one giving her disciline and eventually, she may like you for it. I guarantee she will learn to respect you. But she will never respect you if you get down and dirty on her level....

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