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can't always help it

i think i pick so much because of my stress level. i'm stressed all the time, wether it be my husnand, the work place, or other family members. i remember years ago, there was no such thing, you could sit back relax, no worries, and take your time with everything. now days all that is nearly impossible. it dosen't help that my husband is a money freak either. if it's not money, it's sex. between him and his brother, that's all this house is. there are times also when friends of ours bring drama into our home. there's a gal that works part time with my husband, who has also helped me when needed. she has a very dramatic life and lifestyle. she brings it all into our home two or three times a week. it's ridiculia. all i want is a bill free world. with this kind of life we would all be better off. no more stress, no more tension, no more being crabby, angry, or frustrated. all of this kept going through my head last night, so i dug open my forehead. i got up early this morning to hide it from my husband, just to save my feelings and hearing. i can't even relax anymore, when i use to be able to. it was so nice. i want the old days to come back, and never leave.

By domestic on Mon, 06-28-10, 12:53

welcome

at last someone who agrees with me that the old days were the best.

im sorry that u are so stressed its the modern world, the dog eat dog syndrome we live in the need to have more and bigger although im not sure what will happen when people achieve it'

have u tried cousuling for your picking i have heard that hynotherapy is meant to be good or have u tried cognitive reconition that is very good and gives u another focus for your hands its like retrainin your fingers to do something else instead of pick.

as for those who live with drama they make my head ache but they like to be center stage if i was u i would watch the performance like u do the tv and not get involved apart from the surface chat, some people could make a drama out of being late to the extent u wonder where the film crew are.

these are just a few thoughts but i hope they have given u some indication that u are not alone

loving thoughts and positive vibes

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