May 17, 2012
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infertily in a wannabe stepford wife
hello everyone. i am just starting out in this blogging world, hopeing to find a bit of advice/support.
my husband and i have been trying to have a baby for 5 years we have been through every procedure, test, experiment, drug, etc.. thats imaginable, our last hope is an IUI and then we will be deemed infertile for life. its just not right.. how can God give me no babies but give undeserving no-goods 4 or 5 or more.. i try to stay positive but am starting to loose faith in it all. we have considered adoption but i dont know if i will be able to be a good mom to an adopted baby(even though we had wanted to adopt after we were done haveing our own) due to the resentment i would feel to not being able to have my own leaving my only option to take someone elses baby.. ugh what to do and where to go for here...
By elaina on Wed, 05-11-11, 07:43
I struggled through infertilty for 8 years and how you are feeling right now Believe it or not Is very normal. I also was nervous that I could not love another womans child as my own. But beleive me you can and you will. I have three bEAUTIFUL adopted children nad there is no diffrence. Hang in there It will get better.
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I feel very similar to you. I have not been able to conceive for 12 yrs....and after several rounds of clomid, and HSG and tubal recanalization, followed by several more rounds of clomid we've decided that IVF is the best option for us to try to have children.
In the state I live in there are several groups of doctors that try to provide IVF for people who are unable to conceive. Don't give up hope! I had a friend that became a foster mom and after a while she just became pregnant because the stress of trying was gone. Miracles do happen...Hang in there.
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~Pisces~