soo confused
im a teen and i no i love my boyfriend although we fight ALOT. i used to be on bithcontrol but i stopped cause i didnt like the effects it could have on my body in the long run. this month weve been using the pullout method but im getting scared and regret thinking about maybe pre-cum could of cause pregnacy...i dont get my periond till another 3days but im a very paranoied person and im scacred...i bough condums but im thinking it may be too late ;(
i was going to suggest plan B also. and condoms...you should just use them :)
i hope you get your period!
also think about your love for your bf. i mean is all this really worth it? im 17 and ive done all this about 2 years ago...it was not fun :(
The pullout method can have many flaws. I don't know as much about options for females, but if your boyfriend cares about you then he should take the time and caution to talk to you about this. Sex is great, but it can actually hurt a relationship if you aren't careful. Buy a test if for no other reason than so you can stop panicking. Talk to him about what you both consider options, condoms being a good one. Its better for your relationship in the long run if you two work together and make things comfortable for you both.
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Did you ever consider plan B? I know that you don't like birth control, and I can understand that, however if you're going to be sexually active and you dont want to have to worry about getting pregnant, it's the best thing to do. I would definately use the condoms, which could also be an issue for your bf. But honestly, if you wanna have sex, you're going to have to make sacrifices to ensure that you dont have to make even MORE for a child.