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I am new at this type of thing,but I have heard of sex addiction.

I divorced my ex husband last March. After the divorce I found an on-line dating site. I felt great meeting new and exciting guys just looking for sex. Sex has always been a big element in my life. I believe it is one reason I left my husband, he was really boring and conservative. I have been with many, many men since last summer. I even had sexual relationships with married men. My morals and values disappeared. My ex husband is a very successful trial attorney, and what I do affects his career. Like I care about him, I worry about the kids.

I have vowed not to meet or sleep with any men. It is Lent and I gave up sex and alcohol. I am also an alcoholic. I have 3 beautiful children that i adore. Their father and I share custody of them. I dont want what I have done to hurt my children. I went from the classy PTA mom to a dirty slut. I think I was craving attention, but did not want anyone getting close to me.

Yes, I was briefly sexually abused by my step father. I was around 6 years old. I have had lots of counseling over that. My ex would always use that to hurt me. He said I hated men. I dont hate men, but definatley munipulate them. I have been isolating myself and drinking alot. I liked the nsa sex as no one could see how bad I was damaging myself.

Are there any support groups on-line that encourage others and help with struggles?

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By bluidkiti on Thu, 02-18-10, 06:45

I hope you were using some kind of protection for yourself. Maybe you should check into counseling for yourself with your issues. Counseling can be of help in getting to the root of the problem/s.

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