May 17, 2012
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Should i tell
I recently found out i having a baby by my husband who has no biological children of his own, and these will be his first children ever. He is out there on crack cocaine, and a hard drinker. He has been selling his body to gay men to support his addiction. I am some what ... i don't know, should i tell him? I have a adnormal pregnacy, I am 5 months. we been apart for 3 months
By wife77 on Sat, 01-09-10, 19:14
What if my twins are boys, i could never trust him after knowing what i know. I would not want my kids to hurt or suffer like i am and have. But maybe it would help him get things right, but i would not want him in my life, and could i trust him with God's perfect gifts.
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By bluidkiti on Sun, 01-10-10, 10:08
God is the only one who knows the outcome. The main concern are the twins and what is best for them. You're having twins right?
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By mortyram on Wed, 01-06-10, 10:41
You have to ask yourself do you want him to be a part of your life still? If you have to think about it, then you already know the answer. Its not about you or him...it will be about the child.
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By wife77 on Sat, 01-09-10, 19:18
You are right. After knowing what i know about him. I would never be trustful of him even if my twins are girls.I feel like he needs to know while he is out there selling his body to gay men, he has twins on the way. I just don't want him in my life. To me its' to late to be one big happy family.
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By dkp on Thu, 01-07-10, 04:41
You need to ask yourself:
1. Why do you want to tell him?
(To have him back in your and the child's life?)
2. Will it help the situtation or hurt the situation?
3. Will it help or hurt the child?
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Hey wife77, Yes, I would tell him. You never know, it could be just the thing to help him straighten his life out.