May 17, 2012
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help me please
Tonight may be the worse night in months, I have lost the love of my life.
I am only seventeen, and many may doubt that it really is love but I know its real.
I was a heavy meth user when I was reunited with tommy.
He has always been my suppourt, he is an ex meth user and isn't exactly stable in his own.
Tonight I have lost him for good, my mom told him she didn't want him to come back.
My mom is a meth user, who won't admit using, I can't deal with losing him and
Losing him and be off drugs! Omg my heart is broken.
I can't breathe and I'm falling apart. Help me please
By mdGodandfam on Wed, 09-29-10, 22:12
Hey, I just want to encourage you. Loss of relationships are a painful reality of life. And the emotions tied to the loss can be extremely difficult. I've had many significant losses. Some I handled well; others very poorly. But what I learned is that no matter how impossible it may seem at the time the intensity of the challenging feelings will pass.
Some take longer than others. It is so very important that during that time we make choices that don't add to our grief. Like choosing to reach out for support like you have. That's a huge step in the right direction!
I feel like I'm going on and on. But one more thing. Find quiet places and times to allow yourself to heal. Introspective writing is an excellent tool. And so much better than envolving yourself in the same old conversations that are counterproductive to healing and leave you hurting and confused. Boundaries are good!
Hoping to hear things are getting better for you real soon!
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By Amm1488 on Thu, 09-30-10, 09:48
Ariel- Stay strong and get help!
Someone very close to me used to do meth and then wound up in a mental institution for 6 months because they hallucinated voices that told them they killed the entire navy.
get help, just for you, so you can live a happy HEALTHY life!!
im here anytime you wanna talk:)
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By moongal on Thu, 09-30-10, 10:14
Hey sweetie,
Firstly I am sorry about your heartache. It is so hard, i understand your pain, and yes i do believe you when you say it was love. And I am sorry that your mum is a meth addict too, that must be very hard to deal with especially for such a young person.
But you are not in recovery yes? i think you should try and find an NA meeting and try and maintain your strength in regard to that, because you are doing that, for you hun...not anyone else.
And as for your relationship, mourn it hun, spend time with your friends, enjoy the wonderful girl you are, cry when you want to cry and sing when you want to sing.
You will get through this, just keep your focus on you hun and getting through this.
Love to you hun
Moongal x
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By sarabebeh on Thu, 09-30-10, 19:36
As a former addict, I feel your pain! I was a heroin addict and so was my boyfriend. Although we were each others first loves, drugs were the only thing that was keeping us together, and that's not healthy, or love. We were together for more than 4 years and we should have broken up long before that. Once we got clean and sober, we realized that we are better off as friends and that's how it should have been all along.
You need to talk to your mom about BOTH your issues. Tell her how you feel when you see her on drugs. Suggest that the two of you look into NA meetings.
I am so sorry for the pain you feel. I was your age when I started using drugs and it only gets worse the longer you continue on that path. You have to believe in yourself that you are strong enough to handle all the physical and emotional pain that comes with getting clean. But it is worth it!!!
I am here for support and so is everyone else on the site!
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Hi Ariel, I am sorry to hear about your loss. Why does your mom not want your bf in your life anymore? Are you attending any NA meetings for extra help and support? If not, then I suggest trying to make a meeting. I know it hurts really bad right now. Hang in there. No matter what, don't use. Keep posting. We are here for you. ((((hugs))))