May 16, 2012 | Subscribe

The Time Has Come

The Day came for me last night, I got so mad with My boyfriend, I acted out, and it got physical , I only pushed him twice, and screamed a lot, I felt my breaking point with him coming to a end, and instead of holding it in , like I always do, I gave in, and let my temper take over. I don't understand , when you explain to someone, Not to do certain things, they continue to do them anyway, I have been Very Blunt with my request, and Yet, He continues , I said some Very Hurtful & Mean things to him.
But I look at it this way, at least I was Honest, I'm not completely heartless, I did feel bad for some things, but In all fairness , I did warn him and ask him "Many" times not to do the things he was doing. I guess when "normal" people are told or warned, they really don't hear us.

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By April on Fri, 06-25-10, 15:19

HERE,HERE, I've been doing that for 19yrs., I now consider myself, because he has to help himself & will not, & keeps bring the crap around, (I feel like "Annie Oakly" at times & will stand my ground regardless of his disorders) & I will no longer enable/co-dependant the garbage within him. He IS the common denominator, this fact has taken me 5yrs. of therapy,reading books, internet searching, to no avail on his part, sooo GOOD FOR YOU, I am now steppin my way to other alternatives.

Take care of you.

April

Choose wisely, treat kindly

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