Please God, help me. I'm so scared, I need help, I can't stop shaking

Hi blueberry24, I am so very sorry to hear about what your dad has done. I think getting out is a very good idea. No one deserves to be abused in any many. It is not acceptable. I pray you all can find somewhere to live. Keep us post on how you are doing. We are here for you. ((((hugs))))

I'm so sorry this happened.
It isn't your fault, you didn't hit anyone, your dad did. You didn't cause anything, it was his choice to do it and you didn't make him, it's not your fault.
He can use you as an excuse but know that his actions are his own and you didn't force him to do anything.
Don't be scared, be strong. (:
Go to a safe house. Call 911. Get away from him because your mother, you and your brother do not deserve him and deserve to be with an abusive guy.
I hope things get better!!
(:

Blueberry, do what all above say if you can & we are all here for you, YOU did nothing wrong, these are things your father is battling within himself & I'm hopeful your mother can get all to safety regardless of what the situation is because this is only teaching you kids that is ok & IT IS NOT OK, does your mom have friends or family to take you guys to, are you capable of calling 911 & having him arrested for domestic aduse, its a hard decision/call for a kid to have to deal with but someone is going to have to step-up & it should not be kids,run to a neighbor if you need to. How old are you?

Waiting to hear from you.
April

Hi.
Is this real? I mean this sounds so cliche! I hardly believe guys can hit women like that and that you'd feel guilty for it.
Strange and sad how bad things can end.
I have a girlfriend and i fight with her sometimes, but i would never, ever hit her, at least not properly. The closest I got is when she said lots of annoying things to me, we were laying in the same bed, so I decided to get up and sleep away from her, and she tried to hold me back, so i suddently got very crisped and gave her a firm (but not violent) punch in the bottock so that she lets go of me. Another time she was complaining and crying a lot and I just wanted her to give me some peace so I shook her head. Another time I also broke glass by slamming the door. I might be a bad boyfriend... sometimes... but I would never, ever slap her or punch her directly on her face or upper body with the aim to hurt her. And if I do, I'd know that it's over.
I dont know what your mum or you did, but it looks like things went too far, and it happens sometimes, and then you have to break things up. There are other guys out there who dont beat their wives. And dont call their daughters a mistake.
But I understand, it's your dad. Just, be fine.
Good luck.

Rolfen, hitting IS hitting no matter what, alot of time we have not taught ourselves another form to cope w/certain situations or are raised by spanking (not a useful tool either) there ARE other methods of getting our point across in lieu of being physcial at anytime, its abuse just like calling someone bad things or names likes kids on a play ground, we all need to teach eachother other a better way,maturity has alot to do w/it too.

Keep talking for this is the way we all learn others point of view good bad or indifferent huh.

April

Please dont think your alone we are all here for you to let of steam or share your thoughts and feelings.
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT IN ANYWAY WHATSOEVER!
YOU MUST LEAVE ASAP WITH YOUR MUM & BROTHER TO A SAFE PLACE - IT IS NOT RIGHT BY ANY MEANS FOR ANY OF YOU TO BE ON THE RECEIVING END OF A VIOLENT PERSON.
TRY STAY STRONG AND HELP EACH OTHER AND HAVE THE STRENGTH TO GET OUT - I KNOW HOW DIFFICULT IT IS - I HAD TO FLEA MY EX-PARTNER WITH 2 BABIES WHEN HE WAS ASLEEP AS I WAS SCARED FOR OUR LIVES I WAS PETRIFIED BUT I DID IT AND IT WAS THE BEST DECISION I EVER MADE - ALTHOUGH VERY SAD AND DEVASTING AND AN EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER!
BUT FOR ALL OF YOU ITS VERY TOXIC TO BE STUCK IN THAT SORT OF PREDICAMENT.
PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW THINGS GO AND WHERE YOUR AT - I WILL ALWAYS LISTEN AND HELP IN SUPPORTING YOU IN ANYWAY I CAN XXXX

Abusers project their anger and problems onto others. They manipulate you into thinking that it must be your faut they are like that. It isnt your fault it is theirs. It isnt your problem it is theirs.

All you can do is protect yourself and seek help to make sure they dont take you down with them. Trust me, they will implode Just make sure you are not there when it happens.

Be safe and be Strong.

i believe a parent that is abusive to a child or the mother of their children by hitting and making anyof them feel unwanted needs to direct their anger inward not out ward. father is having a bad day then deal with what the father has done to make it bad day not take it out on those he is suppose to protect and love. a father whom can not protect an dlove his wife and chidlren has lost the privlage to be with them and deserves to be alone in his anger.

BLUEBERRY FIND A SAFE PLACE . in canada the wife does not have to lay the charges any more the police do. does your mom have bruising on her face? i don't need to know i am askin gso you can determin if you call with what shows and your witnessing he can be stopped then.

you know hon you could do your father a favor by havin ghim charged. he can have to ways to go. he can get the help he needs and become a betterperson or he can go into denial and remain a jerk. iether way it is his choice. you have nothing to lose when a parent is abusive but a hole lot to gain if you remove your self.

would like to hear if your safe though hon. please let us know and if you remain I still would like to support you so you do not feel alone . every one in there own time i say.
hugs dare

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