My whole town calls me a whore... they call me fat ugly

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Final Taps-USMC's picture
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Aug 20

You never have to let others get to you. It is easy for others to point fingers,call names and even smirk and talk behind your back. When someone is popular, you can tell they are surrounded by their popular friends but those who are not, they ridicule them. It is not that they are any different but to them, the school is their little World and if you don't fit in, then you are a punching bag for their abuses.

I know it is hard for you to constantly listen to what they have to say. It is not fair and they too will find out that once they leave their little click that the World is much more of a crueler place to live. They will find those that will side with them because they have never grown up from their High School settings. They grow up as adults thinking they are still in High School. They will end up becoming like those around your community who never leave. They have to be popular but as you notice, they become physically different. They want to reminisce about the days they were in High School because they know that if they don't they have nothing. You don't have to be like them. They won't ever grow up.

They may grow up, go to college, or even get married, but in the long term, they will not have what you have. They will not have a child who will grow up loving his/her mother like you love your child. They will always be envy of you and even though they may have done the same thing as you, they will never admit it to anyone. Instead, they will turn on you because to them, it is best to turn the negative attention from them to others. Even those who are not in their clicks talk about those who think they are perfect but they are still cowards because they won't say it outside their own clicks. Instead, they want to be wanted so they pick on the one that the perfect click bullies.

Just remember this much, when you walk around in school hold your head up high because you are a mother and they will not even begin to understand that. They may end up growing up and sleeping with so many people and being used. They will have their hearts broken and some may never have children. They will use excuses to hide their pain because they don't want to be perceived as weak. Yet, here you will be a mother who will be better than them and your family. You will be able to give your child something that no one has ever given to you and never forget that.

So when they want to say bad things to you, smirk, point fingers, or even whisper at you, just know they are just jealous. They can't even begin to understand what it feels to be a mother of a child who will be loved.

Don't worry about your weight. That will always go up because that is a normal process for any girl/woman. It is natural and you can lose that weight when the time comes but for now, it is about staying healthy for your baby and not giving in to peer pressure. Remember your child comes first, not them or anyone else.

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ninjawolf197's picture
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Aug 24

Hey there! Even though I have never been pregnant (I am only 14...and I am a virgin.) I know what the bullying is like, especially from family members. And I know what the cutting is like, the torture. If there is any way possible, find a relative or someone who you can call to take you into their home. If you can't do that, call a social services hotline or something similar. What everyone is doing to you is NOT okay. They should know how much it HURTS to be called those names. Have they not heard on the news about kids and teens, even adults commiting suicide because of what people just like them are doing to you? You are NOT a whore. You are NOT fat. You are amazing! You are worth so much more than people are realizing. Just remember that whenever some doofus decides to call you something. And get out of your house as soon as humanly possible. Your family is treating you poorly. You don't need to stay.

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necibaby137's picture
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Aug 29

U r absolutely beautiful just the way u r. :)

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